Blackened

It wasn't an easy transition to single motherhood. In the get go, Justin was very controlling and kept flaking on times to see the kids. And yet he kept wanting to fight me to agree with 50/50. I had to call the cops a couple times because he showed up at my house and refused to leave. He wouldn't take our daughters schedule into consideration and kept wanting to take her during her nap time and when I would refuse, he would get mad and claim I am keeping the kids from him. Around two weeks after he left, he came by after work to say goodnight to the kids. He started flirting with me and making obscene comments about my body. He felt me up in the kitchen and when I tried to stop him he said I was still his wife, so what harm was there to be intimate with each other. Even though I knew better, I gave in because I was still under his control. Yet, he still refused to talk to me, so I knew he was only using me for sex. We kept getting into fights over finances and otherwise....

We met at the YMCA as per our agreement for drop off of Kendrick for visitation. At arrival, I handed him Kendrick and then proceeded to shut my car doors and prepare to leave when he turned around as I was getting into my car and said "you're not going to let me say goodbye to the kids?" and I told him why, he would see them in two hours I needed to get home and I didn't want to speak to him. He made a rude remark about it so I reluctantly opened the sliding door (which is automatic not manual) and allowed him to say hi to Natus and Avalon. He made some remark about how I 'refused' him visitation on Monday morning, and I reminded him that he had taken Avalon and Natus for his 4 hour on Sunday, but that he couldn't do the full visit and I wasn't ok with splitting  up the four hour that way, and that it wasn't allowed as it wasn't in the agreement. He claimed that his lawyer said that he could because the agreement never said he couldn't, ...